Single for No Good Reason

January 13, 2012

I’ve written about the frustrations of waiting for Mr. Right to come along before, but it’s a topic that needs to be repeated regularly. If you have been dating and you keep meeting men that you wouldn’t wish on your worst enemy, sometimes this is just part of the dating process. Dating is frustrating for most people, but understand that there is nothing wrong with you.

When a woman is single for long periods of time she tries to fill in the reasons why she hasn’t met the right man yet, she’s too fat, too thin, too loud, not smart enough, whatever negative thing you allow to fill your imagination, but sometimes there just isn’t a reason. This is not a popular response because we are taught to believe that if something isn’t going well in our life there must be something we aren’t doing right, but that’s not always the case.

There are some women that might not have to work to meet the right guy, but most of us have to put forth some effort. Dating is simple, and there is nothing more natural than two people coming together to see if they connect but that doesn’t make it easy. If love is what you truly desire be persistent and don’t give up. Be willing to step out of the box to make a love connection, try something different and surround yourself with a new environment and new people.

Take the pressure off yourself to meet the right guy and keep dating simple with these 3 tips:

1. Look and feel your best- you have to attract the man to start the conversation

2. Go where the men are- Unless you decide to date the pizza man, chances are Mr. Right will not come knocking on your door. You have to go places where men will actually show up, whether it’s a dating website or a local cultural event

3. Have a conversation- the easiest way to let a man know you are interested in him is to smile and say hello

You do not have to be perfect to meet a man, imperfect people get married everyday. But you have to be in the right space to allow a connection to happen. If you don’t play, you can’t win.

Do you feel like you’re single for no good reason? Leave a comment and share your thoughts.


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