June 7, 2013
Join me Live for Love, Dating & Romance on June 13th
If you’re in the NYC area, join me live on Thursday, June 13th for Love, Dating and Romance, an event I’m co-hosting with two awesome coaches in the areas of love and Feng Shui. It’s a SHE Summit pop-up event. If you’re finally ready to write your happy ending, don’t miss it. Click here to learn more and get your ticket.
What to Do if You Haven’t Met the Right Guy Yet
On any given Friday night across the world, it doesn’t matter where it is, you’re likely to find a group of single women discussing their challenges, ups, downs and frustrations with men and dating. So if you’ve found yourself sipping Merlot with you friends talking about how hard dating is, you are not alone. But after all of the juicy conversations and wine, you still have something to consider, you haven’t met the right guy yet so what are you going to do?
The way I see it, you have two options:
- Do nothing
- Keep looking
Either way could work, I suppose, but you’re going to be more successful if you’re active in the process of finding love. You’ve probably been led to believe that love will just happen and that there’s minimal to no effort required, and that’s just not true. Meeting the right man doesn’t need to be hard, but whether you’re single and looking for love or in a long-term relationship, effort will be required on your part.
You can decide to do nothing and stay where you are, in the life you have right now or keep meeting men and going out on dates until you meet the right one. Even in the face of disappointment, bad dates, ticking clocks, whatever the case may be, you keep going. I realize this can be hard to accept because it’s not sexy. Keeping at it when you feel like giving up is not an easy thing to do, especially if you’ve been dating and looking for love for a long time.
I don’t know why you’re still single nor do I know for how much longer, but I do know that if love is what you want, you have to continue to put forth the effort to get it. Effort doesn’t need to be tedious work, it simply means to do things like check your online profile regularly and reach out to the men you find interesting or opting out of another night on the couch to go to an event so you can be seen and introduce yourself to a new guy. I want the best for you, and my goal as a dating and love coach is to get you ready for love so you can keep it and enjoy it once you’ve got it. It’s worth the effort.
So what choice are you making? Do nothing or keep looking? Leave a comment and share your thoughts.